Like everyone on here is a person. You all have hopes and dreams and fears and inside jokes and favourite pyjamas and embarrassing memories and a favourite meal and a happiest memory and a favourite animal and a best friend and comfy socks and a favourite movie and
Hearing people throw around the words “delusional” and “delulu” so often when they clearly don’t know what it means is so silly to me at this point, but also a little frustrating.
Like I heard someone in a video say “she’s the worst type of delulu, where she actually is in a different reality” while describing someone being cocky and overconfident.
As a reminder, delusional means someone is holding a belief or altered reality that is persistently held despite evidence or agreement to the contrary, generally in reference to a mental disorder. Delusions are typically beliefs that exist outside of objective or common reality (so not something subjective like “this art is good”). It is often unshakeable, people can’t be talked out of their strongly held belief even if it is completely nonsensical. They typically cause a disturbance to your life, unlike a spirituality or religion that you enjoy.
So someone saying “I’m the most attractive and most talented person in this room” might be annoying, but it is that person’s subjective belief. It’s your subjective belief that they are not, but neither is right or wrong because it is subjective.
Having a crush on a celebrity and wanting to marry them and imagining that happening is a conscious choice, it’s a daydream. Meanwhile delusions are not conscious choices, it is a symptom a person has whether they want it or not.
It’s important to uphold the true meaning of this word, because it describes a mental condition that impacts many people. Having the words definition change by making it mean other things does harm us. If we want to open up to a friend about a serious mental problem in our lives by saying “I have delusions”, that person should know the gravity of that, and not think it’s some fun quirky personality trait that everyone has.
Also the way people misuse the word tends to be in a negative or insulting way, aimed at the delusional person. But delusions dont indicate anything about the delusional persons personality and morals. The delusions are caused by a mental health problem and not chosen by the person. This is important to remember when people have strange, mean, self centered, taboo, or scary delusions, it doesn’t mean that a person wants to believe that, they can’t control it.
So please try and use the words “delusion” and “delusional” correctly, don’t give it a cute trendy nickname like “delulu”. And try and educate the people around you about the actual meaning of these words, and the impact of misusing them.
not caring about the way people use labels for themselves personally as long as it doesnt harm others and not getting into fights online about what groups of people are “true members of the lgbt+” is so relaxing i promise. a queer elder calling themselves a “lesbian” despite having attraction to both men and women because thats the term they were called for their entire lives or someone online calling themselves “transsexual” instead of “transgender” in their carrd because they feel it fits their experiences more or a person making up an entirely new label because they feel none of the current ones really describe them specifically and they want something unique to themselves as a person are fine. its their lives and if it doesnt negatively impact you then it really doesn’t matter. i think we are too focused on putting things into neat categories because our brains like neat categories but the human experiences with gender and sexuality can’t be placed into neat categories and thats okay
I spent a good chunk of my weekend scrambling to finish this comic. I hope you like it. I was really trying to push myself with the colours.
You know what’s wild? This comic still gets reblogged every single day. I made it so long ago it doesn’t even feel like my own work haha. Anyways, I guess I’m glad people still like it but it’s very weird to have One Piece of Art that Doesn’t Fade.
Yup, that’s the point you just stay still and let it do whatever the fuck it wants that doesn’t involved you getting eaten.Â
REALLY FUN FACT for big cats cheetahs are fucking docile as shit
my grandfather ran a cheetah sanctuary in south africa and he’d just lie with them and sleep among them and they’d rub against him and chirp at him they’re big fucking babies
Another Fun Fact: Cheetahs are incredibly nervous animals. One of the (many) reason’s they’re going extinct is that cheetahs are so sensitive and nervous, some of them are literally too nervous to breed. Others will breed, but stress themselves out so much, they’ll lose their cubs.
So zoos with breeding programs had to figure out how to make cheetahs comfortable enough to first of all, get laid and secondly - not spazz themselves into miscarrying.
So what’d they do? They gave the cheetah’s their very own Service Dogs!
The dogs make them feel safe, protected and secure!
Also! Cheetahs are not in fact classified as big cats, they are simply very large lesser cats, due to the fact that they purr, meow, chirp, and cannot roar. Also many cheetahs have learned to recognize wildlife photographers are friends and not foes, so they will just come up to people and be friendly occasionally as pictured at the top of the chain. Some will even leave their Cubs with photographers to look after while they hunt. So. Yeah. Cheetahs are great
this works because cheetahs are actually fairly social animals, and they look to members of their group for context on how worried they should be about any given Situation. but since cheetahs are also nervous social animals, they can work each other into an anxiety spiral pretty easily over things like “being in an enclosed habitat” and “there’s a guy over there”.
so by introducing a dog as a member of the group, the cheetahs will now look to the dog for context clues on how worried they should be! and the dog Is Not Worried At All, Thanks, so the cheetahs think everything must be chill even if they were personally unsure about it, and they stop being so freaked out about literally everything.
Cheetah: oh god what’s going on how are we feeling weird spotless cheetah
